03 october - - - ~ we say, that we change our habits probably just to save us the troubles with changing necesserily ourselves, that would mean to lose us it is hard, this does explain a bit of the trouble, it is life, this does explain not a thing, it is necessery, this does us under pressure but what does inspire & lighten us up, which makes it possible for us to change with joy & excitement when are we eager to change, can't wait till the change is here & our changed us is already our present not just future or a possible maybe we talk alot about things & within words, which we already know, but we avoid things to do & words to formulate us which we don't know or we push without haven't learned first before we make & talk, being criticised we can still flee into the illusion of doing nothing wrong to go through the status, the present, the reality of being wrong is necessary, we have to be able to cope constructive with being wrong cause being wrong is the normal status of a novice, we have at least to get used to being novice somewhere & we have to combine that vitally with being expert somewhere, sounds weird if we know all those things, why don't we do it on regular basis ? probably cause think, that they don't matter that much ! wrong assumption "Infantilizing or hypercritical “help” will do you more harm than good." / Cindy Glovinsky - - - - - - - - - reflectingarea Ra "Infantilizing or hypercritical “help” will do you more harm than good." / Cindy Glovinsky 3 Oct reflectingarea Ra if we know all those things, why don't we do it on regular basis ? probably cause think, that they don't matter that much ! wrong assumption 3 Oct reflectingarea Ra we have at least to get used to being novice somewhere & we have to combine that vitally with being expert somewhere, sounds weird 3 Oct reflectingarea Ra cause being wrong is the normal status of a novice, 3 Oct reflectingarea Ra to go through the status, the present, the reality of being wrong is necessary, we have to be able to cope constructive with being wrong 3 Oct reflectingarea Ra or we push without haven't learned first before we make & talk, being criticised we can still flee into the illusion of doing nothing wrong 3 Oct reflectingarea Ra we talk alot about things & within words, which we already know, but we avoid things to do & words to formulate us which we don't know 3 Oct reflectingarea Ra when are we eager to change, can't wait till the change is here & our changed us is already our present not just future or a possible maybe 3 Oct reflectingarea Ra but what does inspire & lighten us up, which makes it possible for us to change with joy & excitement 3 Oct reflectingarea Ra it is hard, this does explain a bit of the trouble, it is life, this does explain not a thing, it is necessery, this does us under pressure 3 Oct reflectingarea Ra we say, that we change our habits probably just to save us the troubles with changing necesserily ourselves, that would mean to lose us 3 Oct reflectingarea Ra ~ 3 Oct